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Sugar babies are the young ladies who are dating old men while sponsors are the old or married men dating young ladies.Recently in the current generation women have refused to date and marry men of their age brackets claiming that they are not giving them the soft life they want since they are not stable.Ladies just want men who are pampering them with money,renting them houses and furnishing it with expensive things,taking them for dates in expensive hotels and even some are buying them vehicles.These sugar babies have made many marriages to break because most of the time these men the so called sponsors want to spend time with the young ladies where they say that the sugar babies make them to feel more young because men claim they never get old.This sponsor thing mostly it’s affecting ladies who have come from humble backgrounds.

One thing these ladies should know is at the end of the this men will leave them and go back to their wives who have given them babies.They are Justin messing up with the ladies who are desparate and don’t know what they want in life.Competition is one key thing that is leading to ladies having this men.For instance you find a lady wants to buy something she saw in her friend’s house and since she doesn’t have money since she doesn’t have the money she’ll ending up falling for a sponsor just to get that stuff.Ladies should learn to be dependent to themselves,live a life that one can afford and stop living other’s people life.When the sponsor gets to know that you have a boyfriend they kill the sugar babies which has led to many young souls death rate.My urge to ladies is to wake up and get a life.

My name is Evaline Mbua from Kibichoi Kiambu county.I completed class eight in the year 2010 and joined Kagumo Girls Secondary in Kirinyanga county.I had a privellege to interact with people from different tribes and counties.In form one I was very naive.When we broke for midterm in the first term my dad came to pick me because I was afraid of getting lost since I was in a county that had not been there before.Also while coming back from the midterm break he had to drop me.

The year went on smoothly and I was promoted to the next class,that is,form two.The first term is where my indiscipline cases started.My name couldn’t miss in the list of noisemakers and for this I did various punishments like carrying heavy logs,scrubbing the pavements and mopping the dinning hall.The second term i was able to sneak in with a phone which I was using at night together with my bedmates.After using it for a while our names were presented to the principal where we were suspended for two weeks and after coming back we were given a punishment to wash the school cowshed and take the manure to the school’s farm.We scrubbed the shed thoroughly and once we were done called the principal to clear us.We stayed the whole day smelling manure.It had reached a point where I could meet with the deputy and she could always tell me to see her.We were banned to wear jumpers so we had to break the class ceiling where we could always hide them after cleaning in the morning,I also had home clothes with me where we could sneak out of school during the night.We were once caught by the watchman and once he asked our names we lied to him names such as Bunsen burner,parenchyma e.t.c

Lastly in the last term my friends planned a strike and since we were always together I was counted in the mix where we were all suspended for good.

Sugar babies are the young ladies who are dating old men while sponsors are the old or married men dating young ladies.Recently in the current generation women have refused to date and marry men of their age brackets claiming that they are not giving them the soft life they want since they are not stable.Ladies just want men who are pampering them with money,renting them houses and furnishing it with expensive things,taking them for dates in expensive hotels and even some are buying them vehicles.These sugar babies have made many marriages to break because most of the time these men the so called sponsors want to spend time with the young ladies where they say that the sugar babies make them to feel more young because men claim they never get old.This sponsor thing mostly it’s affecting ladies who have come from humble backgrounds.

One thing these ladies should know is at the end of the this men will leave them and go back to their wives who have given them babies.They are Justin messing up with the ladies who are desparate and don’t know what they want in life.Competition is one key thing that is leading to ladies having this men.For instance you find a lady wants to buy something she saw in her friend’s house and since she doesn’t have money since she doesn’t have the money she’ll ending up falling for a sponsor just to get that stuff.Ladies should learn to be dependent to themselves,live a life that one can afford and stop living other’s people life.When the sponsor gets to know that you have a boyfriend they kill the sugar babies which has led to many young souls death rate.My urge to ladies is to wake up and get a life.